Ministry Resources

When You Pray

When God made us, He put something in us that reaches out for Him. We realize that we need a power greater than our own to solve our problems, protect us, and meet our needs. Through prayer we learn to reach out to God for help.

Join With Others When You Pray

Have you discovered the blessings that come from praying with other Christians? Have you made it a practice to gather your family together for prayer to thank God for His goodness and to bring your needs to Him? Do you attend the prayer meetings of your church?

God draws His people closer together when they share their joys and concerns. His plan is for them to understand and care about the needs of others. We experience many blessings when we follow His plan. What a relief we feel when a friend prays with us about our problems! What a deep sense of friendship we have when we can lift the burden from a brother or sister’s heart through prayer. Our faith is made stronger as we encourage each other to trust God’s promises.

This lesson explains the principles of praying with others and gives us this kind of prayer from the Bible. As you apply the principles you learn, your spiritual life will become richer and more full. You will feel a stronger bond—both with your Heavenly Father, and with the brothers and sisters who are a part of His family with you.

In this lesson you will study. . .

Pray With a Friend Pray With Your Family

Pray With a Prayer Group Pray With the Church

This lesson will help you . . .

  • Find and use your opportunities to pray with
  • Advance God’s work in your community as you encourage others to


Objective 1. Discuss the importance of praying with a friend.

Jesus has promised to be with us in a special way wherever two or three meet together in His name. Like the two disciples on the road to Emmaus to whom the risen Christ appeared as they were talking about Him, you and a friend can sense His presence. He will speak to you through the Scriptures. He is there to bless you, fill you with joy in His presence, and send you to tell others that He is alive.

It was at the dinner table that Jesus let the disciples at Emmaus know who he was. Eating together with a friend provides an opportunity to get better acquainted with one another and with the Lord as we talk about what He has done for us. Many Christians invite a friend or friends to dinner to introduce them to Jesus. And He is there!

I hope you have a Christian friend who can be a prayer partner for you, someone you can pray with regularly—if not daily, at least once a week. It is very important to have someone who can agree with you in prayer. This may be someone to help and encourage you, or a new Christian who needs your help in prayer. You will certainly want to pray often with any friends whom you lead to the Lord.

We have two wonderful promises of Jesus for the two or three that meet together for prayer and agree on what they ask in His name: He will be there and He will answer!

Matthew 18:19-20. “Whenever two of you on earth agree about anything you pray for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, I am there with them.”

  • Memorize Matthew 18:19-20.
  • Write in your notebook the names of friends with whom you pray individually, or with whom you might If you do not have a prayer partner, see if you can find one.


Objective 2. Initiate a pattern for family prayers.

A Christian home is one of the greatest blessings a person can have. In fact, it can be a little bit of heaven on earth as the whole family worships and serves God together! If your family knows the Lord, they should enjoy with you the spiritual growth and benefits that come through family prayers every day. During these times of daily prayer, which are sometimes called “family devotions,” the parents should lead, the husband as the head of the home and the wife joining with him. If only one parent in the home is a Christian, that person should gather the children and pray with them each day, being careful to do so with the attitude of gentleness and consideration. The same applies to the home where there is only one parent.

Though parents should lead the time of family devotions, any member of a Christian home should feel free to ask the others to read the Bible and pray with him. A Christian family also prays together at their meals, thanking God for the food and asking Him to bless it.

1 Timothy 4:3-4. But God created those foods to be eaten, after a prayer of thanks, by those who are believers . . . . Everything is to be received with a prayer of thanks.

How wonderful it is when children are taught to pray for one another and for any needs in the home! They can go to their parents at any moment and have them pray for their problems. And they form a life-long habit of recognizing God’s provisions for them and looking to him for guidance and help. The family that prays together strengthens the ties of love that bind them together. Life is smoother because they pray over family relationships and God answers.


FOR the Family                      WITH the Family

Salvation for All                           In Family Devotions

Family Relationships                 At Meals

Needs of the Family                   At Church

Individual Needs                        With Individuals

In case you want to have family devotions in your home (or want to help some other family to do so) here are some simple suggestions.

Suggestions for Family Devotions

  1. Choose a regular time that is most convenient for everyone. Early in the morning is good. Some families have prayers at the breakfast table. Others find the evening more
  2. Pray together daily at the same time if
  3. Let each member of the family take part. This may be in reading, requests for prayer, comments, and praying.
  4. Read a short and easily understood part of the Word of God, especially if there are small children in the (You may want to use a Bible storybook with small children.) Many families use a daily reading from a devotional book as well as from the Bible.
  5. Let members of the family share any questions or comments on what has been
  6. If you like, sing a chorus or two of praise and thanksgiving or
  7. Give an opportunity to mention any special needs or reasons to give
  8. Have a short time of prayer in which one may lead or all may take (I suggest short prayers so the family won’t get tired and grow to dislike prayer time.)
  9. Encourage all to listen for God’s Expect Him to speak to all who take part.
  10. Do not get discouraged if there are interruptions and times when it is impossible to have family prayers. Keep on trying. Don’t try to follow a set program but adapt it to the circumstances and as the Lord leads.


Objective 3. Describe how to start a prayer group.

God is working in a wonderful way today in small prayer groups all over the world. Friends gather to study the Bible and pray: God answers prayer as they unite in faith for each one’s requests. Unsaved neighbors usually accept an invitation to a friend’s home more readily than they would to a church. Many are finding Christ in these home prayer meetings. Miracles of healing are taking place, God is solving problems in family relationships, and thousands are being filled with the Holy Spirit in small prayer groups.

What is happening today is like what happened in New Testament times. Those first Christians met in the Jewish temple and synagogues (Jewish places of public worship) and also in the homes of believers. Later they were persecuted and driven out of the synagogues. But they still had Christ’s promise and saw it fulfilled as they met together in small groups; He was there! In homes, in caves, down by the river, in underground caverns among the catacombs, in prison—they prayed together and God answered prayer!

It was in the home of Cornelius, a Roman army officer, that Peter first preached the gospel to people who were not Jews. God filled with the Holy Spirit all who had gathered there and made clear that the gospel was for all people everywhere.

Later Peter was in prison, sentenced to be put to death the next day. But many believers met in the home of Mary, the mother of John Mark, and prayed earnestly for him. An angel brought him out of the prison. The shackles fall off, the doors open, deliverance comes when God’s people meet together and pray!

The church at Philippi started in a prayer group. Paul and Silas found a group of women meeting for prayer down by the river. One of the women, Lydia, accepted Christ. She opened her home to Paul and Silas so they could have a base for their work while they were in Philippi. Great things can come out of a women’s prayer meeting! If you read the letter that Paul sent to the church at Philippi many years later, you will see what a strong, spiritual church it was.

Small groups today are usually very flexible in their program. Some meet weekly in the same home. Others meet in the homes of the different members of the group by turn. Others meet in churches, factories, offices, and schools. A group can start with only two or three persons. If there are more than fifteen it will be hard for all to take part as freely as in a smaller group. Many women’s groups meet in the morning or afternoon while the men are at work and the children are in school. Mixed groups (men and women) usually meet in the evening. Some have refreshments and a time of fellowship after prayers. Others don’t. Some are prayer breakfasts or luncheons held in a hotel or restaurant.

The persons in charge of a prayer group should consider the circumstances and the responsibilities of those who attend. If the meeting is too long, some will not be able to attend because of duties at home (duties should not be neglected). Some may lose interest if it is too long. However, some groups are able to put everything else aside and spend hours in communion with God. If some members have to leave early, they are free to do so. And when God is working miracles, transforming lives, and filling people with His Spirit, the time seems short!

The suggestions in this lesson for family devotions can be helpful for leading a prayer group. In general, these are good steps:

  1. Begin with a short time of This helps focus our thoughts on God and His goodness and encourages faith.
  2. Have a brief time of reading and sharing in the Word of God. This may be a Bible study with a teacher, or each one may give a Bible verse and tell how it has helped
  3. Have reports about prayers that have been answered. In this way, each one can thank God for what He has done and all are encouraged to pray for other
  4. Encourage those who have special needs or requests for prayer to share them with the
  5. Encourage all to take part in praying for the needs and for others as the Lord

Some prayer groups are part of the program of a local church. Through them, many people can have a personal experience of belonging to the family of God. A church in Seoul, Korea, for example, grew from 23,000 members to 35,000 in just one year because of the prayer groups that were started. The groups were organized into basic units of ten people each, and they met once each week in homes all over the city. The results were amazing: conversions, miracles, growth! Today, this church is still growing as its “prayer cells” continue to meet and multiply.

In other areas, people from different church backgrounds meet in groups. God transforms lives, revives churches, and brings greater unity in the body of Christ as His people pray together.


Objective 4. Identify needs in your church for which you can pray.

The prayer-group movement is wonderful, but the church is more than prayer groups. The church has a job to do. It must take Christ to the world, establish Christians in the faith, train  them for service, and help them in their daily life and work for God. We may find great blessings, friendships, and ministry in prayer groups, but we also need to take part in a local church. And those whom we lead to Christ in the prayer groups should also be let into the fellowship of a local church. They need its ministry and should develop into strong members who can take their place in its work.

Prayer is a vital part of the church—its power. Jesus talked about the temple as a house of prayer. The disciples went to the temple to pray. The leaders of the church spent much of their time in prayer. God wants every house that is dedicated to Him for public worship to be a house of prayer, a place where He meets with His people.

Isaiah 56:7. “I will . . . give you joy in my house of prayer . . . My Temple will be called a house of prayer for the people of all nations.”

Acts 2:42-43. They spent their time in learning from the apostles, taking part in the fellowship, and sharing in the fellowship meals and the prayers. Many miracles and wonders were being done through the apostles.

Acts 2:46-47. Day after day they met as a group in the Temple . . . . And every day the Lord added to their group those who were being saved.

Acts 3:1. Peter and John went to the Temple at three o’clock in the afternoon, the hour for prayer.

At the gate of the temple, as they were going in to pray, Peter and John saw a beggar who could not walk. In Jesus’ name they ordered him to get up and walk, and he did! As a result of this healing and Peter’s message to those who saw it, about 3,000 people accepted Christ that day. The authorities put Peter and John in jail for preaching about Jesus and ordered them not to do it again. As soon as they were released they met with the other Christians and prayed that God would give them boldness to keep on telling people about Jesus.

Acts 4:31. When they finished praying, the place where they were meeting was shaken. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to proclaim God’s message with boldness.

How can we make God’s house a house of prayer today? We include prayer in all of the various services there—Bible classes, worship services, youth meetings, evangelistic services. We give opportunities for prayer requests and have testimonies about answered prayer. Some churches have prayer rooms in which people gather to pray before the public service. Those who want to accept Christ or to be filled with the Holy Spirit go to the prayer rooms at the end of the service. Christians counsel them and pray with them. In other churches people go to the altar in the front of the church to pray before and after the service.

Many churches are open for people to come in and pray at any time of the day.  Many have   an early morning prayer service before people go to their work. In many of the Korean churches hundreds of men and women meet at 5:00 o’clock every morning to pray.

Does your church need a spiritual awakening, a revival? Does your pastor or priest need more of the power of God in his ministry? Do you want the members of the church all to be filled with the Holy Spirit and have the same boldness to witness that the early church did? Do you want to see miracles in answer to prayer and have the Lord add daily to your church people who are being saved? If so, pray for your church, in your church, and with your church. God is doing these very things in many churches today. He can use you to bring these results to your church too as you do your part and as you encourage others to pray!

Psalm 122:1. I was glad when they said to me, “Let us go to the Lord’s house.”

Psalm 134:2. Raise your hands in prayer in the Temple, and praise the Lord!

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