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The Responsible Christian

Author Jose R. Silva Delgado shows us how to become faithful stewards. In a parable, Jesus commended two good stewards who had managed their assets wisely and condemned the one who did nothing with what he had been given. This course teaches how to manage and invest what God has entrusted to us, so that one day He will say, "'Well done, good and faithful servant…. Come and share your master’s happiness!'" (Matthew 25:23).

Developing Our Personalities

Do you remember that you learned in the previous lesson that God’s purpose is to restore His image in us? What a wonderful purpose! And this restoration takes place as our personality is developed.

Of all the things God has entrusted to us, our personality is the most valuable. It is what makes us persons, thus causing us to be different from the animals. It is also what has made us to be the crown of creation—God’s masterpiece.

As God’s stewards we have, then, the great and inescapable responsibility of faithfully managing what He has given us. In regard to our personality, our responsibility is to guard it and develop it until we become like Christ.

Our personality is made up of three main parts which are the intellect, the will, and the emotions. This lesson has been written in order to help you develop each one of these. In it you will find useful suggestions for ways you can enrich your intellect, strengthen your will, and use your emotions for the glory of God.


The intellect or mind is what enables us to think, understand, remember, or imagine. Man’s improper use of it has been one of the main causes of the ills and wrongs which afflict the world. But if it is used properly, the human intellect can be a great blessing for mankind. For that reason we need to exercise it in ways that please God until it reaches its full development (1 Corinthians 13:12, Colossians 3:10).

Think About What Is Good

Objective 1. Identify several ways we can help our minds to think about what is good.

One of the ways of exercising our intellect is to think. Actually, thinking is the main activity of our intellect. Our thoughts determine our character because “what [a man] thinks is what he really is” (Proverbs 23:7). This is why God wants us to think about what is good and pleasing to Him (Philippians 4:8, Psalm 19:14). But how can this be done? There are two things you must do.


You need to feed your mind. Our mind can function well— that is, think on good things—if we feed it with good thoughts. Bad thoughts are to the mind what poison is to the stomach.

The Bible is the best food for our mind (Matthew 4:4). The  Bible’s thoughts are God’s thoughts. So if you read it or hear it, you are allowing your mind to be filled with the best thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). And then your mind will also be able to meditate on God’s Word— that is, to think about it (Psalm 1:2; 119:97, 99).

The Holy Spirit is another source of good food for our mind. If you will pay attention to Him, especially when you are praying, He  will  teach you precious truths (1 Corinthians 12:8, 1 John 2:27).

We can also feed our mind by reading good things. Paul told the Philippians to fill their minds with “those things that are  true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and honorable” (Philippians 4:8). In addition to the Bible, Christian books can give you excellent ideas to think about.

If you attend the meetings of your church often,  the messages that are preached will enrich your mind for profitable meditation afterwards (James 1:21).

And last, wholesome conversation can also be a source of good thoughts. For this you need to keep away from those people who suggest bad thoughts to you (Psalm 1:1, 2 Timothy 2:16). On the contrary, seek conversations that are edifying (Ephesians 4:29).


You need to discipline your mind. From the time you accepted Jesus as your Savior you have had a new mind. You feed it with good Nevertheless, you have discovered that at times it has been very hard to think about what is good. Don’t be surprised or discouraged because of this. All Christians have this experience. Sometimes these come from our own human desires. But they may not be yours at all. They may come from Satan, who tries to bring them into your mind. He did the same to the first woman (Genesis 3:1-3) and to Jesus (Luke 4:3-9). The woman failed; but Jesus overcame. And since you have the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:16), you also can overcome.

When you are faced with an evil thought, here are some things you may find helpful to do:

  1. Don’t take it in. Someone has said: “I can’t keep the birds from flying over my head, but I can keep them from building a nest in my hair.”
  2. Pray to God asking Him to help you overcome the evil thought.
  3. Think immediately of something good (Philippians 4:8).
  4. Quote verses of the Bible. This was what Jesus did (Matthew 4:3-11).
  5. Sing a hymn or chorus which will bring good thoughts into your mind.

Study Useful Things

Objective 2. Select statements that show what value studying has for a Christian.

We spent an important part of our life studying. When we were children, it may be that at times we didn’t like to. But now we have discovered how valuable it was to have done so. For the same reason many believers who stopped their studies during their childhood are continuing them today. Others who never went to school are learning to read by going to night school.

It may be that until now you haven’t done anything in the Lord’s work because you believe you don’t have the preparation that is needed. This is your opportunity. You may begin studying the Bible (Acts 17:11) along with other Christian books that will help you to know the Scriptures better, be a more mature believer, and serve effectively in the ministry (2 Timothy 2:15). The fact that you are studying this course shows that you are already doing this. Why not also study other subjects that are good to know and will enable you to do the work you are involved in?

People who aren’t Christians often consider believers to be ignorant and uneducated. Many times they have reason to do so because some believers don’t try to educate themselves. It is true that Jesus came to the unlearned (Matthew 11:25-26); but He came to teach them so they would come out of their ignorance! Why don’t we, then, prepare ourselves for every kind of work in which we can be useful to the Lord so as to bring Him honor?  An owner as wise as God needs managers who are prepared.

Studying, of course, requires more mental work than just thinking. But what a good investment it is! At the end of your studies your mental powers will be more developed and you will know more things. And if you think that you don’t have enough mental ability to study, ask God to help you. He certainly will James 1:5). And while you are studying the Scripture, He will help you to understand it (Ephesians 1:18, 1 John 5:20).

Pray With Your Mind

Objective 3. Choose descriptions of how we should use our minds when we pray.

One would assume that every time we speak we use our  mind to think about what we will say. Perhaps sometimes we haven’t done this and have regretted it later. What is certain is that when we pray to God we are talking to Him. And one would assume that we would also use our mind to think about what we say to Him. The apostle Paul said in regard to this: “I will pray. . . with my mind” (1 Corinthians 14:15).

It doesn’t seem, though, that people who pray  needlessly long sentences, including words that are unimportant or repetitions of what they have just said to God are using their minds very much. Jesus condemned this practice (Matthew 6:7). If we give careful thought to what we want to say when we  speak to someone in authority, how much more should we do so when we speak to the One who is the owner of the universe!

The Bible records many prayers. These can give you suggestions as to how to put your ideas in order when you pray to God. You have, for example, the prayers of Abraham  (Genesis 18:23-32), Moses (Exodus 32:11-13), Hannah (1 Samuel 1:11). You have the Psalms, the prayers of Elijah (1 Kings 18:36-37), Ezra (Ezra 9:6-15), the Levites (Nehemiah 9:5-37), Daniel (Daniel 9:4-19), Habakkuk (Habakkuk 3:1-19). In the New Testament you have the prayer that Jesus taught (Matthew 6:9-13), that of the disciples (Acts 4:24-30), and the many praises found in the book of Revelation.

Share Your Knowledge

Objective 4. List a special skill or knowledge you have that you could share with others.

Our minds can bring honor to God and be a blessing  to others if we share what we know. Some of the ways you can do this are to testify about what Christ has done in your life (Acts 23:11), or to preach (Acts 8:4) and teach God’s Word (1 Timothy 4:6). You could also teach nonreaders to read or share with others something special that you know. Do you know how to play a musical instrument? Teach others in your church. Do you know how to sew, weave, or embroider? Work together  with the ladies’ group in your church by giving some classes.

Be Sensible

Objective 5. Identify a description of the Christian’s attitude towards his mental abilities.

Someone once said that what we call common sense doesn’t seem to be all that common. And the Word of God supports this. In fact Paul the apostle had to say to the Corinthians: “Do not be like children in your thinking . . . but be grown up in your thinking” (1 Corinthians 14:20).

The story is told that during World War II a bomb fell in the courtyard of a home for the insane. Fortunately it didn’t cause serious harm to the building, but it did create a panic among the inmates. One of them commented: “What’s going on? It looks like the world has gone crazy!” What insight there was in that comment! In fact, there are many things in the world that don’t make sense because men are not using their minds the way God wants them to.

But we, as God’s stewards, have the responsibility of growing mentally. This means that we ought to develop our mental powers until we reach maturity (Hebrews 5:11-14).


Objective 6. Choose examples and descriptions of four ways we can use our will as God’s stewards.

Our will is the part of our personality from where our desires and decisions come. As God’s stewards, we recognize that He is the owner of our will. Because of this, we have the responsibility to use it the way He wants. But how can we do this? Here are some instructions that may be useful to you.

Obey God

Obedience to God is the submission of our will to His will. This is the way to show that we acknowledge that we are only stewards of our will. It is better than anything else we can do to please God (1 Samuel 15:22).

The will needs the help of the mind in order to obey God. If the mind doesn’t know what God wants, the will cannot obey Him. Our mind needs to be filled with the Word of God. It needs to be taught and directed by the Holy Spirit. Then it can instruct our will to obey God.

Some believers seemingly find it impossible to obey God  in certain situations. But what these believers should realize is that they are “joined to Christ” (2 Corinthians 5:17). God made us over again and for that reason we are equipped to obey Him.

Obedience to God helps make our will become strong. People who don’t obey God often find themselves having to do what others say. They do not want to obey them; but they are afraid of their threats or ridicule. Notice, however, how the apostles successfully resisted the threats of their enemies (Acts 4:18-20; 5:28-29). Thousands of believers throughout the centuries have had similar experiences. And the enemies of God know that the strongest wills belong to obedient Christians!

Our will cannot obey God of its own accord. It has to learn to obey. And God has left us with the responsibility of sending it, so to speak, to school! This is a process which lasts all our life. Many times we may also have to say: “Not my will, however, but your will be done” (Luke 22:42). But as we are learning we may count on the help of the Holy Spirit, until we are able to  say: “How I love to do your will, my God!” (Psalm 40:8).

Avoid Every Kind of Evil

You may discover that at times you feel a conflict within yourself. Your mind knows what is good (Romans 7:23); but your will is too weak to obey the instructions your mind gives it (Romans 7:15, 19). Does this conflict have to continue all your life long? Will our account to God be a history of more failures than victories? Thank God, no! He is not the kind of owner who just abandons His manager and leaves him to his own devices.

The apostle Paul, the same person who tells us about the failures in Romans 7, shows us the way of victory in Romans 8. The Holy Spirit comes to help us, weak as we are (Romans 8:26). God’s power is strongest when we are weak (2 Corinthians 12:9). With this confidence, we can become one of those who “were weak, but became strong” (Hebrews 11:34). No wonder then, that Paul would say: “Avoid every kind of  evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:22). This is what God desires for us,  and during the test He makes available the strength to endure it and so provides us with a way out (1 Corinthians 10:13). But we must exercise our will to receive His help.

Choose What Is Right

When God gave man a will, He entrusted him with something very dangerous and sensitive. It was like giving him a high-powered weapon—because man’s will is free. He has the power to choose. By means of his will the manager can even reach the point of rebellion against the owner! (John 5:40). How great is our responsibility, then, to manage our will the way God wants us to!

Choosing implies making a decision. You decided to accept Christ instead of rejecting Him. You decided to get up this morning instead of staying in bed, to read this book instead of another. God appeals to this power of choice when He says: “If you will only obey me . . . But if you defy me. . . .” (Isaiah 1:19-20).

What we are is the result of our good and bad decisions. Of course, God wants us always to choose what is right (Deuteronomy 30:19). A well managed will produces good decisions, while if it is badly directed the result may be bad decisions. You judge a manager by the decisions he makes! For example, Daniel made a good decision (Daniel 1:8); but the one Saul made was wrong (1 Samuel 15:9-11).

How can a person make good decisions? If you find yourself confronted with a situation in which you can’t decide what to  do, here are a few suggestions:

  1. Determine what the Bible says about your situation
  2. Pray to God for guidance.
  3. Ask your pastor or a more mature believer for advice.
  4. Think over a similar situation in the past and analyze the decision you made then. If it wasn’t right, why make the same mistake again?
  5. Consider the decisions made by other people who faced the same situation or a similar one. Analyze the results of their decisions.

Do Good

There are a lot of people in this world who have good intentions. However, they never translate those good intentions into actions. God wants us to use our will not only to produce good desires but above all to produce good works (James 1:22, Matthew 5:16). Paul said: “We should do good to everyone” (Galatians 6:10).

How grateful we should be to those faithful managers who have used their strong will to promote and do good things! This world is a better place because of them. In our day the existence of many of the institutions that benefit society and do good seems altogether natural. But they have come about because of Christian men and women who put their wills at the service of God and humanity.


Objective 7. Identify statements that express what our emotions have to do with our Christian life.

The emotions or feelings are another very important part of the human personality. God gave man an emotional nature, but he has managed his emotions very badly. As a result, they have been uncontrolled and misdirected. Anger has become hatred; love and joy are linked to what is bad and not to what is good. Christ came to put our emotions under control and in their rightful channel. Therefore, as God’s stewards, we have the responsibility of keeping watch so that our emotions will be maintained and developed as He wants.

Worship God

One of the ways of using our emotions as God wants is to worship Him. We express our love to Him because it pleases Him for us to do this (Matthew 22:37). We love Him too  because He loved us first (1 John 4:19). We cannot remain indifferent when we feel His wonderful presence and meditate on His many blessings! The joy that overwhelms our hearts causes us to burst out in praises to God (Luke 19:37, Acts 8:7-8).

Some people believe that the emotions are out of place in worship services. But perhaps these same people weep over the death of a loved one, laugh loudly at a party, and do not hesitate to show all their enthusiasm at a sports event. How much more does God deserve for us to express to Him the feelings of our heart! Jesus’ answer to those who wanted to repress the enthusiasm of the crowd who were praising Him in loud voices is worth paying attention to: “I tell you that if they keep quiet, the stones themselves will start shouting” (Luke 19:40).

The book of Revelation shows us how the emotions of the redeemed will reach their climax in the worship of God. Their enthusiasm will be overflowing (Revelation 7:9-10; 14:2-3); their joy indescribable (Revelation 19:6-7). Let us confidently use our emotions, then, for God’s glory.

Grow Spiritually

The emotions fulfill a very important role in our  spiritual growth. We will see this as we consider two aspects of this growth.

The Fruit of the Spirit

As in Adam’s case, God has left us to care for a beautiful garden. It is the garden of our emotional being. We have the responsibility of uprooting the “weeds”: bitterness, passion, anger, and other hateful feelings (Ephesians 4:31, Colossians 3:8). But the Holy Spirit, who dwells in us, is the one who cultivates the garden so that beautiful “fruit” is produced (Galatians 5:22-23).

But you might ask: Is it possible that our spiritual growth is mostly a matter of emotional growth? Though it may be hard to believe, this is the way it is. Love is not a thought or desire. It is an emotion. And it is the highest of all! In addition, notice how the remaining parts of the fruit of the Spirit mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23 are also emotions. And they are all intimately related to love according to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

It is when love has reached its fullest development that we can love God with all our heart and our neighbor as ourselves (Luke 10:27). Love for our neighbor is expressed by loving our brothers and sisters in the Lord (1 John 3:14), strangers (Luke 10:30-35), and even our enemies (Matthew 5:44).

The Attitude of Christ

We have arrived at the peak of our emotional development when we reach the place where we have the same “attitude” that Christ had (Philippians 2:5). Christ felt a deep compassion for the lost, the sick, and the hungry (Matthew 9:36; 14:14; 15:32). How moving was His lament over Jerusalem! (Luke 19:41-44). How great was the love with which He loved us that He gave  His life for us! (Revelation 1:5). It is this attitude which has caused millions of believers to preach the gospel.

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